How To Write a Love Letter in 4 Steps

There’s something special about giving a handwritten letter to your significant other. It’s a magical way to express feelings and look back on the special bond and relationship you’re building. If you need a little help getting started, here’s how to write a love letter in 4 steps:

1. Opening

You want to open the note by letting your loved one know that this is a love letter. For example,

“I wanted to sit down and write you this letter to tell you in words how much you mean to me”.

2. Recall a special memory and transition it to the present.

Opening your love letter with a fond memory you both share can help ignite feelings and release some of the serotonin from that day. Examples can be a memory from the day you met, your first date, or a moment that always brings a smile to your face.

Now that you’ve reminisced, it’s time to transition to the present and describe how you’re feeling now. You can start your transition with something like,

“And even now, seven years later, I still admire…”

3. List the things you love about them.

This is probably one of the most romantic parts of a love letter. In this part, you’ll simply list the things you love about your partner. You can mention aspects of their character, physical characteristics, and personality traits that you appreciate. This is also the opportunity for a special acknowledgment by thanking your partner for all of the wonderful things that they do.

Example,

“I love how kind you are. I adore the freckles that sprinkle across your nose. From home-cooking yummy meals to making me laugh during the hard days, I’m so grateful for you.”

4. Reaffirm your love with a special closing line.

“I have always and will always love you. I will stand proudly by your side throughout life, through the good times and the bad.”

The most important rule here is to be authentic. It doesn’t matter if you go for a cheesy, lovey-dovey ending or with a light-hearted inside joke. Stay authentic to yourself and your feelings and that will transfer across your letter.

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